Update netbeans platform to version 19

This MR addresses 1073856

Changes:

• d/p/*: refresh patches.
• d/linked-jar: update binary dependencies.
• d/pom/*.xml: update version to 19.
• d/watch: update watch file.
• d/copyright: update exclusions.
• d/p/{allow-security-manager.patch,platform-langtools9.patch}: drop patch integrated upstream.
• Drop obsolete overrides.
• d/p/platform-langtools9.patch: drop patch integrated upstream.
• d/p/netbeans-empty-binaries-list.patch: drop patch. Use d/copyright to exclude files.
• d/p/add-use-release-option.patch: add nb-javac option to disable setting --release instead of -source/-target.
• d/control: add Rules-Requires-Root: no.
• d/control: add missing dependencies.
• d/rules: do not try to delete *.jar directories.

Testing:

• Rebuilt libnb-platform18-java and reverse dependencies in ppa [1]
• manual test with rebuilt visualvm
  • profile tomcat application (pass)[2]
  • install all plugins [3]

[1] https://launchpad.net/~vpa1977/+archive/ubuntu/visualvm/+packages

[2] https://bugs.launchpad.net/ubuntu/+source/libnb-platform18-java/+bug/2069654/comments/1

[3] https://bugs.launchpad.net/ubuntu/+source/libnb-platform18-java/+bug/2069654/comments/2