Improve reducer algorithm and other changes (#2472)

Fix #2475. Fix #2476. 

* Improve reducer algorithm: shrink granularity, remove an early return, no lazy initialization, notify pass if binary is interesting, add comments.
* Add fail-on-validation-error option to fail a reduction if an invalid state is reached; useful for tests.
* Set fail-on-validation-error in tests.
* Improve some documentation comments.
* Add Reducer::AddDefaultReductionPasses so tests (and other library consumers) can add the default reduction passes.
* Add CLIMessageConsumer in test_reduce so we can see messages for tricky tests.
* Remove test RemoveUnreferencedInstructionReductionPassTest_ApplyReduction because it was indirectly testing the reduction algorithm, not the RemoveUnreferencedInstruction pass.
* Tweak tests where needed.