compositor-drm: preserve CRTC routing harder

If we are processing a connector that does not have an existing routing,
it is possible we pick a CRTC that was previously routed to a connector
we have not enabled yet. If that happens, the latter connector cannot
preserve its routing.

Check that no other connector we might enable later had this CRTC
before.

Signed-off-by: Pekka Paalanen <pekka.paalanen@collabora.co.uk>
Acked-by: Derek Foreman <derekf@osg.samsung.com>
Reviewed-by: Daniel Stone <daniels@collabora.com>